...oh, also, there is very limited central record-keeping in Cellsor, so there's absolutely nothing to stop you just using your newly-chosen name/behaving as if married with no Renaming at all, if that's what you feel like. It'd be considered a bit odd, but it doesn't have the stigma that is attached to having had no first Naming at all. After all, you're an adult and your name/gender/living arrangements are your business.